On a second character I was determined to do this one solo.
You're not going to believe how easy it is. I *think* others have eluded to this, but I've never seen it laid out. It's real simple.
Follow the primary quests until you reach Nolani Academy. Begin your quest for the Ashes from Nolani, NOT Piken Square. If you leave from Nolani Academy you set off with a party of 5 level 8 NPCs, rather than a party of 3 level 6 NPCs. It made ALL the world of difference, and with a lot less frustration. It was suddenly no harder than any other mission.
I'm thinking that this may have even been the designed route to take, but the difficulty is realizing that its easier if you pass it up and take it from the other end.
Hope this helps.
C
