Someone Please Help Me. Im stuck and dont know if the game screwed me or I messed up.

Ok. I am on my lvl 20 monk and I have almost every town in the jade sea. The thing is, I got to the door at the hatchery and they wont let me in because of some turtle egg quest. I went to cavalon to get the quest from elder rhea and she wont say anything to me (i have 10,000 luxon faction). Then someone suggests I need to do Sunjiang districts mission. I was like "ah! yay thats what i screwed up" so I leave out of Matuu to run north to sunjiang. When i get to the mission town, the bridge is up and the guy wont let me in because I haven't gotten something in Zos Shivros, noone in Zos Shivros has anything for me or will say anything except for the one guy who says i cant go to cavalon cuz im not allied with "the three clans."

I'm totally stuck here and would really appreciate some help

You need to complete the Arborstone mission as well, then take the primary quest from Maatu keep. After completing that, you will be allowed into Sunjiang.