W/??? Best Tank/Dmg Dealer

What is the best secondary for a tank besides a monk? I know those are good but everyone has them and I want something different. I was thinking W/Mes for empathy and to steal energy. I want to use a hammer and I want to deal a lot of dmg, while being able to take a lot of dmg.

w/e armor of earth obsidion flesh. or hammer + aftershock

w/n for damage axe + curses Or sword + blood
w/mes Illusion + sword -10 health degen with phant bleed gash migraine
w/r isnt to bad either use melandru's resistance with troll and posion with nature rituals for pvp natures renewal fertile etc

What would be the build for sword + blood? Wouldn't curses still be the better choice for damage dealing?

I'd abuse weaken armour and enfeeble for necro side

Also w/r...aren't u forgetting tigers fury? hell you got to have that skill, its frenzy without the double damage annoyance. Also Sever Gash + Apply Poison? Rituals like Quickening Zephyr and Serpents Quickness are really helpfull too along with the melee avoidance and dodging skills. In my opinion w/r is quite a good warrior build for dmg and degen.

bleed + transrer+ siphon + gaze yeah i forgot about tigersfury but serpents dosent make you dodge :x