"I discourage new players from studying PvX"
even i, who plays for more than 10 years since september last year, still wont use pvx
i did say i use pvx to get ideas, but i forgot to mention i barely get a good feeling about what could be good in my case
some builds look good, but not to my liking, or just different from what i want
if i want to have enemies their skills interrupted, i need more interrupt, nothing like on pvx... unless i use 4 panic mesmer and change some skills
but then i wouldnt need pvx for that
i also watch these forums sometimes i get an idea for heroes in some areas cases... but not quite what i'm looking for
on my main i use a variation of zway, which was made by (forgot name, sry :P ), but on the rest, i kinda play more than do serious stuff, so on melee chars i use more stuff which protect me and what may assist me, and on casters, i use the same old teambuild i used a long time now
even though i use other's builds on my heroes sometimes (in my main's case) i dont use builds made by others for my own character, as i can only use builds which i made myself, well (unless its Signet of Spirits, as my main is rit, and the variation of zway i use, has no offensive spirits)
anyway, what i'm saying is, other's builds never have exactly what i want, so i try some of the skills myself, and see whats best for me, and replace them with others, to see what i can use best for my own use
so i agree its bad to use pvx as starter, but i also say you 2 should try and find builds from many different people, to see what skills you find the best for yourselves
just find some inspiration (not the mesmer attribute, haha... wordjoke) from others, and make your own.... but do that after you figured out waht skills do and dont work at which enemies
at the moment i'm kinda not much in the mood to try new stuff, but i am planning on making own builds from scratch again with my characters, and start over completely with making hero builds,a nd see what works best with my own character
ps. i only gave the pvx site to answer the question "where can we find builds", and maybe it helps getting inspiration of what you like to use, what skills, so you can learn more about them and how they work with certain other skills
anyway, i gotta afk, i hope to see news from you on how the game is for you, soon

enjoy