My hubby and I just started playing in October, and we're loving it! Some of the stuff we've learned (sometimes the hard way LOL):
1. You're not locked into anything. Try out each class if you want. If you don't like it, just start a new one! Not all of the classes play quite the way you might expect based on other games... so it's usually a good idea to try and get a feel for how they work in this specific game. Hubby did a ranger and I did an elementalist as our first toons. We've stuck with them. I've finished Prophecies, Nightfall & EotN and am working on Factions. I play in Hard Mode a lot as an elementalist now, and I've learned how to deal with the fact that I'm not quite the nuclear bomb in HM that I can be in in Normal Mode. Every class has its challenges and its advantages... and honestly, I think you have to kind of learn them for yourself.
2. Stay in pre-searing until
you are ready to leave. Don't let anyone push you into switching to post-searing until you're ready. I was
really taken aback by post-searing... and then I couldn't wait to get the heck away from Ascalon because it was sooooooooo dreary and dead looking. I still hate going back there for Zaishen missions.
If I had the choice to make again (and if I'd been on my own and hadn't had my husband and my best friend with me to make the "transition" a bit easier), I'd have kept my first toon in pre-searing a while longer. As it is, I stayed until I was level 12... but I think I'd have made a second toon and brought IT to post-searing to test the waters before bringing my beloved elementalist over. I may just be oversensitive, but post-searing was
really a shock to my sensibilities.
3. Make liberal use of this forum and
the Wiki. There's an
alternate version of the Wiki here in case the official one is down for some reason. I pretty much always have my browser open to the Wiki and to Guru if I'm playing so I can look things up immediately.
4. In pre-searing, things like black & white dyes, and the
gifts from Nick are definitely desirable. When you're in Ascalon, hit "P" on your keyboard and look at the first tab there to see what people are buying/selling these items for. Don't sell your dyes (any of them) to the merchant. Other players will buy them, or you can save them for post-searing to dye your armors & weapons.
5. Get
better armor. And save up your crafting materials so that when you do get to post-searing, you can get
still better armor.
6. You'll see people posting "LFGM 50g" or some such. There's a section in pre-searing where it takes two people to get into the area. One to open the gate, the other to walk through. One person can't do both. A "gate monkey" is someone who opens the gate. The person walking through usually wants the "gate monkey" to leave the party as soon as the job is done. Sometimes they want you to map-travel as soon as you pull the lever, sometimes they want you to map-travel once they're actually through the gate, and sometimes (rare) they're willing to let you come along with them and earn XP/get drops.
ASK what they want. "Do you want me to wait until you're through or to leave as soon as I pull the lever?" Generally, they're going to OFFER if they're willing to have you stick around (aka "leech").
7. If you're going to get into a party with someone for adventuring, even within a guild, let them know that you're new and that you'll want to watch the cinematics. This is all new to you, and you should be able to take your time getting through the content. I don't think anyone really needs a guild in pre-searing and everything there is designed to be able to be accomplished solo. Much of post-searing can be solo'ed as well. Technically, all of it CAN be solo'ed, but several of the missions can be very very very difficult to solo, especially the first time through. Henchmen help somewhat, heroes help more (need Nightfall or EotN to get heroes), friends to play with help the most. You have plenty of time to make those friends before you'll be faced with those missions.
8. You may want to know about
this or about
this before you begin playing. I've heard a few people wish they knew about those right from the start, especially the first... I probably would have worked on LDOA right away if I had known about it, but I'm ok with having skipped it and have just started a Survivor toon instead. My husband is working on LDOA now - I think he's crazy. LOL
9. Understand that there is a LOT to learn about this game... and that you won't learn it all overnight, or in a week, or even in a month. There's a lot of information out there, and it can become overwhelming. There's also probably going to be times when you read about something and think, "that doesn't make any sense." It will, once you're able to put it into context... and sometimes that means "not until it's actually staring you in the face." That's ok... be ready for that to happen, it's normal. LOL Ultimately, this is a game... and it's supposed to be fun. If something isn't fun for you, don't do it. People thought it was bizarre that I was staying in pre-searing until I was level 12 but wasn't going for LDOA. Killing charr was FUN for me... death-leveling was not. I spent weeks just merrily killing charr over and over again because I LIKED it! My game, MY way. Play your game YOUR way!!