What to do with hard insults?

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ReiNaruto
ReiNaruto
Lion's Arch Merchant
#1
I was wondering if you can do anything about ppl insulting you. I dont think just sitting and ignoring them is sufficient.

Last night I was playin AB with 3 guildies and a friend from outside of the alliance. We all are spanish, so we were speaking spanish to coordinate in game (my mike is dead).

Then, one of the groups began to say samething like beaners (at that moment, I didn't know what was that). One minute after they started to scream: MEXICANS GO TO HELL, WE WANT YOU ALL DEAD. I HATE MEXICANS, THERE ARE TOO MUCH IN CALIFORNIA. And in private: I'll gonna burn you beaner. Go RED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GO to your home.

And thinks like that, I was wondering if anything can be done with this stupid people.

The funny thing is that they blame me for speaking spanish, and when I told them that I wasn't mexican, they begun to blame all latin american people, when I told them again that I wasn't even american, they just shout up. It was funny.
jackie
jackie
/retired
#2
Screenshot & report to support. With luck they might get temp ban.
Without gamemasters that's pretty much only way.
Aragorn
Aragorn
Frost Gate Guardian
#3
screen and he will get banned.
it works for me, i make screens from a guy and 3 days after he whispers me "ty for ban" i reply "np"
P.D: im also spanish
Etta
Etta
Forge Runner
#4
Take a screen shot, write down the time and place of the incident and report them as a racist, done. Open a can of beer, sit down and watch the rerun of heroes. Log on guru and see a new" I just been banned! can anyone help me?!!" thread.
zwei2stein
zwei2stein
Grotto Attendant
#5
for me "but i am not mexican - bast latinamericans - but i am not american - silence" is pretty good. It made him look like really closeminded fool and hopefully realize something ... meh, who am i kidding.
warren_kn
warren_kn
Wilds Pathfinder
#6
Quote:
Originally Posted by Aragorn
screen and he will get banned.
it works for me, i make screens from a guy and 3 days after he whispers me "ty for ban" i reply "np"
P.D: im also spanish
I take it you warned him you'd take shots of the conversation, otherwise how did he know it was you that got him banned? I thought the process was anonymous. Although he could have wised up to the fact you were the only person he'd acted like an ass to.
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Roshi_ikkyu
Jungle Guide
#7
Quote:
Originally Posted by ReiNaruto
I was wondering if you can do anything about ppl insulting you. I dont think just sitting and ignoring them is sufficient.

Last night I was playin AB with 3 guildies and a friend from outside of the alliance. We all are spanish, so we were speaking spanish to coordinate in game (my mike is dead).

Then, one of the groups began to say samething like beaners (at that moment, I didn't know what was that). One minute after they started to scream: MEXICANS GO TO HELL, WE WANT YOU ALL DEAD. I HATE MEXICANS, THERE ARE TOO MUCH IN CALIFORNIA. And in private: I'll gonna burn you beaner. Go RED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GO to your home.

And thinks like that, I was wondering if anything can be done with this stupid people.

The funny thing is that they blame me for speaking spanish, and when I told them that I wasn't mexican, they begun to blame all latin american people, when I told them again that I wasn't even american, they just shout up. It was funny.
I suggest you take a scrn cap, and report. But also remember they can't insult you, the only means in those words are the ones we attach.
Don't let it get to you.
Productivity
Productivity
Lion's Arch Merchant
#8
I'd suggest you stop expecting everything in life to be a padded room and ignore it... Complaining about it just encourages them.
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spellsword
Frost Gate Guardian
#9
Ignore it, morons like that aren't worth your time.
Ravenholm
Ravenholm
Ascalonian Squire
#10
lol, you did the best thing there and i hate the fact that it goes on.

To be honest i do admire you for even bothering to learn English, i mean most British people when they go over to Spain and other countries they expect everyone to speak English which is an insult to Spain and other countries cultures.

So my advice is just to ignore it, sure it will make then say more insults but thats just because they are getting angry as the aren't getting a reaction out of you :P
-Loki-
-Loki-
Forge Runner
#11
Ignore it and just enjoy the fact that you aren't a handitard like them.
makosi
makosi
Grotto Attendant
#12
That isn't just insulting, it's racism.

I had a dark-skinned character and, even though I'm caucasion, I recieved racial remarks from time to time. I'd be lying if I said it didn't hurt.

They're just kids whose families obviously condone xenophobia and the best thing you can do, like -Loki- said, is to rise above it and feel grateful that you aren't one of them. Report it if you made screenshots too.
onerabbit
onerabbit
Grotto Attendant
#13
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ravenholm
lol, you did the best thing there and i hate the fact that it goes on.

To be honest i do admire you for even bothering to learn English, i mean most British people when they go over to Spain and other countries they expect everyone to speak English which is an insult to Spain and other countries cultures.
when i went to spain i learned spanish in about 3 days, by the end of the holiday i was ordering meals, drinks in spanish, chatting to people and stuff in spanish .. i was only 14 then =D


But i agree .. asoon as they start being ***** just ignore them .. other wise u just get more and more frustrated.
prism2525
prism2525
Forge Runner
#14
Racists are retards.

Retards deserve bans.

They don't deserve your attention.

If they whisp in a few days things like "you got me banned!", it mean Anet did take action, which is good.

Ask them if they want another.
MirandaKali
MirandaKali
Academy Page
#15
Quote:
Originally Posted by Productivity
I'd suggest you stop expecting everything in life to be a padded room and ignore it... Complaining about it just encourages them.
Complaining may, perhaps, encourage them, but it also let's the asshat bigots know that you won't stand for it. With any luck, a complaint to ANet will get the slime-ball banned, and then they will know that such behavior will not be tolerated.
Expecting the world to be a shiny happy place is a fool hearty thing to do, yes. But if you're not going to stand up for yourself and try to make the world a better place, you may as well just lie down and pull the lid closed.
Hobbs
Hobbs
Desert Nomad
#16
Quote:
Originally Posted by prism2525
Retards deserve bans.
O rly?

Back on topic, if someones insulting me in game I either put them on my ignore list, make witty remarks back or just ignore it. If it really makes you feel bad report them but I don't need the hassle tbh.
explodemyheart
explodemyheart
Wilds Pathfinder
#17
Remember kids, racism is bad but ableism is okay.
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Molock
Desert Nomad
#18
The same thing happens to me when I start speaking french...
They are like : "shut up you stupid french person" or other more vulgar insults..

Anyway, I have reported many incidents and have gotten angry pm's back, lol
They do suspend them
quickmonty
quickmonty
Ancient Windbreaker
#19
Ignore.

Make no reply.

Take screen shots and report to ANet

Know that you are a better person because you did not retaliate in kind, and you did the community a service by reporting this kind of behavior.
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Dodgers777
Ascalonian Squire
#20
It's hard to just ignore hateful comments like that. I feel for you. Try turning off local chat next time.