Curse

John Waffletord · Sep 30, 2005, 01:21 PM // 13:21

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Originally Posted by EWC-Beowulf

dude, an rpg forum is NOT the place to ask for female advice.

haha, definitely

Women are nothing but a waste of time anyway. Let me rephrase that, GIRLS are nothing but a waste of time. They have no idea what they want and they will jerk you around for no good reason. Some women though are okay, you know the ones that don't spend every moment of their life trying to make yours worse.

matiasdu · Sep 30, 2005, 01:31 PM // 13:31

I recommend "The Four Loves" by CS Lewis
An insight into the nature of love, its forms and manifestations. True Love exists when the four loves are present in a relationship: affection, friendship, erotic love, and the love of God (selfless love).
Being able to understand what you are feeling can really make a world of difference. Since ppl who hit a wall in a relationship can and often think if it worth it to go on, knowing for sure what are your own feelings can easily clear away doubts an give place to action. Then the only variable in the ecuation becomes the other person, simplifying a lot of your thoughts. As long as she feels 1 of the 4 loves towards you, you have a chance to make all 4 grow into the relationship.
Mind you, that does not mean it will happen. But as I said, knowing even a bit more of what the hell is going on is a big plus.

Divinitys Creature · Sep 30, 2005, 01:52 PM // 13:52

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Originally Posted by sino-soviet

Well at least now the dance is over with. LOL.

I don't think I've ever laughed so hard in my life. Fortunately, she thought it was pretty funny as well. My friends really screwed the whole thing up, but it was quite amusing. I was attempting to dance (after practicing with me roommate for hours on end) and it was going ok, I just sort of let her lead. However, my friends decided to pull something on me. They knew I had practiced dancing to techno/trance, so they switched it to rap. I just kindof blanked out, I was that nervous. Nontheless, seeing me nearly faint made her day .

I don't think I'll do that ever again though.

Heh he that's funny, how the hell do you dance to rap

never tried that. I do like that sort of prank though. My friend was going out with his gf he met over the internet, and we were with them at a bowling alley that had karaoke and a dancefloor. It wasn't karaoke night though. So I sneaked away and asked the DJ to play that Titanic song that Celine Dion sang and got him to announce they were getting married ROFL they were about to die with all those people looking at them and congratulating them

Witchblade · Oct 02, 2005, 10:19 AM // 10:19

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Originally Posted by John Waffletord

Women are nothing but a waste of time anyway. Let me rephrase that, GIRLS are nothing but a waste of time. They have no idea what they want and they will jerk you around for no good reason. Some women though are okay, you know the ones that don't spend every moment of their life trying to make yours worse.

someone here had a rlly bad experience a few weeks ago ?

Old Dood · Oct 02, 2005, 10:36 AM // 10:36

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Originally Posted by Divinitys Creature

Heh he that's funny, how the hell do you dance to rap ?

never tried that.

We had to Chaperone/Monitor a High School dance once. They danced to RAP. They were Freakin'. I almost had to call in the Jaws of Life to separate these couples.

The way they were dancing I figured I would be better off just throwing in to the fray handfuls of condems. Looked more like a Primal Mating ritual then dancing.

Xue Yi Liang · Oct 02, 2005, 01:45 PM // 13:45

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Originally Posted by matiasdu

I recommend "The Four Loves" by CS Lewis
An insight into the nature of love, its forms and manifestations. True Love exists when the four loves are present in a relationship: affection, friendship, erotic love, and the love of God (selfless love).
Being able to understand what you are feeling can really make a world of difference. Since ppl who hit a wall in a relationship can and often think if it worth it to go on, knowing for sure what are your own feelings can easily clear away doubts an give place to action. Then the only variable in the ecuation becomes the other person, simplifying a lot of your thoughts. As long as she feels 1 of the 4 loves towards you, you have a chance to make all 4 grow into the relationship.
Mind you, that does not mean it will happen. But as I said, knowing even a bit more of what the hell is going on is a big plus.

i.e. storge, philia, eros and agape

Were you educated by Jesuits, too?

sino-soviet · Oct 02, 2005, 04:29 PM // 16:29

Rap? Crunk? Hip hop? Either way, something I'm not familiar with.

Cartoonhero · Oct 02, 2005, 05:42 PM // 17:42

as a girl i'd say that just being yourself is the biggest key here. i hate it when men act in ways that are definatley not part of their personality. i've had a boyfriend for two years now, and him being completley himself and relaxed on those first few dates made all the difference. oh and, John Woffletord, not all girls(women, whatever), are a waste of time. you've obviosly just met some real bitches in your life, like the sorority girls on my floor.

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Originally Posted by Divinitys Creature

IMHO women you have a relationship with are like a really good friend that you are also attrated to and can have more fun with

wow. good advice. thats pretty much my realationship with my guy, and i love it that way.

Old Dood · Oct 02, 2005, 05:55 PM // 17:55

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Originally Posted by Cartoonhero

wow. good advice. thats pretty much my realationship with my guy, and i love it that way.

Exactly! My wife and I are friends....best friends! Best friends trust one another....wouldn't have it any other way!

Divinitys Creature · Oct 03, 2005, 04:01 PM // 16:01

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Originally Posted by Old Warrior Dood

We had to Chaperone/Monitor a High School dance once. They danced to RAP. They were Freakin'. I almost had to call in the Jaws of Life to separate these couples.

The way they were dancing I figured I would be better off just throwing in to the fray handfuls of condems. Looked more like a Primal Mating ritual then dancing.

heh heh heh reminds me of the last concert I went to