Curse

sino-soviet · Sep 24, 2005, 10:35 PM // 22:35

Yeah, I have introduced myself to her, I forgot to mention that. I wouldn't say we really got to know each other yet though.

Witchblade · Sep 24, 2005, 10:35 PM // 22:35

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Originally Posted by Spartan2

Anything on this earth is possible; all that it takes to accomplish is imagination. No matter how absurd something seems, no matter how impossible the task appears, you can do it; no pun intended. Put your mind to it, be creative, be inventive, be truthful.

oh man .. THIS is the saying i hate most

Ur analysis seem good to me.. but THIS ..
Believe me this is definitely wrong...

Alone) · Sep 24, 2005, 10:49 PM // 22:49

Just take it easy, get to know her. Become friends and take it from there. Who knows, it might take a few weeks, maybe a few years until you actually get together. But having a boyfriend or girlfriend who becomes your bestest friend in the whole wide world, I feel, is one of the greatest things in life.

Me and my girlfriend were friends for about a year until we started going out. It's 1 year and 10 months this Oct. 1.

And Witchblade, about that quote closely related to: "You can do anything that you put your mind to" is not always wrong. Well, how I view it. People have their ups and downs, but if someone wants to get to achieve a goal, putting your heart into it helps a lot. If all fails, maybe a different approach might work.

Witchblade · Sep 24, 2005, 11:08 PM // 23:08

the prob is... the fall is harder when u realize u wont get what u want... if u see things that way (dunno if i made myself clear on this one

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secretsmg · Sep 24, 2005, 11:14 PM // 23:14

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Originally Posted by Serps

Treat her like a friend until you're no longer tongue-tied. That way, you won't screw up.

No no no, you never want them to think of you as a good "friend." That just takes yourself out of the game right away.

Spartan2 · Sep 24, 2005, 11:39 PM // 23:39

Withcblade, it was meant more as a saying to help with state of mind, nothing more. It is fallacious but if you get in the positive state of mind, you can do it. If it goes to the point of arrogance due to sheer overconfidence, then it is a statement that should be avoided.

zehly · Sep 24, 2005, 11:41 PM // 23:41

All you have to do is not stalk us on the forums

Witchblade · Sep 24, 2005, 11:51 PM // 23:51

@Spartan: positive side ?

been there .. done that ..

nah good (simple but thats the feeling )
@Zehly: "stalk"

zehly · Sep 24, 2005, 11:55 PM // 23:55

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Originally Posted by Witchblade

@Spartan: positive side ?

been there .. done that ..

nah good (simple but thats the feeling )
@Zehly: "stalk"

Not funny

Witchblade · Sep 24, 2005, 11:57 PM // 23:57

why is that?

zehly · Sep 24, 2005, 11:58 PM // 23:58

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Originally Posted by Witchblade

why is that?

Because it's serious. :/

Witchblade · Sep 24, 2005, 11:59 PM // 23:59

i AM serious here heh

Xue Yi Liang · Sep 25, 2005, 12:02 AM // 00:02

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Originally Posted by zehly

Because it's serious. :/

Agreed. It's very serious.

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Originally Posted by Witchblade

i AM serious here heh

Sorry but finding humor in "stalking" speaks of someone's level of maturity. Especially in light of someone else's sensitivity to the issue.

Witchblade · Sep 25, 2005, 12:07 AM // 00:07

fighting for something is serious... thats an obvious thing

even if i dont like the use of the word "fighting"

Lets be honest a sec .. it still quite luck and look based stuff ...

but thats not rlly the point... i just mean dont go too much in the "believe in miracles and it will happen" thing

cauz...i ve seen (not talkin of me there) what it does when the "magic doesnt happen" (in a way that s the feeling u r trying to show us here)

@xue: omg!! sry i should have said it otherwise ... i meant .. i dunno what IT means .. i m french

sry
What do u call "stalkin" .. i aint sure i got THIS idea ...

Autumn_Leaf · Sep 25, 2005, 12:22 AM // 00:22

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Originally Posted by Autumn_Leaf

sounds like a smart grandfather. take the advice. Get it over with, or else you'll have anx-si-ity (can't spell) every day.

[QUOTE=Autumn_Leaf]totally agree with the don't be in the firend-zone thing. reason being is that after a while she will concider u a friend and think that entering a relationship with u can cause harm to the frienship if things don't work out. [QUOTE=Autumn_Leaf]

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Originally Posted by Autumn_Leaf

as to what to say to the girl start woth this
"hi, u wanna hang out after school?" simple and to the point. it shows that your interested, but not needy.
remember:
1. don't do anything stupid,
2. try to talk to her when none of your or her stupid friends are around because they can mess the whole thing up. ( u do not need distractions to an already stressful moment)

do u not like my suggestions? I think its enough with the help, its all for nothing if you don't have the courage to do something with them.

sino-soviet · Sep 25, 2005, 12:23 AM // 00:23

I thank all of you for your input, and I think I'm going with the "dont get too close but get to know her a bit" stance on this. I'll erm...try my luck tomorrow.

Witchblade · Sep 25, 2005, 02:05 AM // 02:05

anyway ... GL

that's the main idea

Mr Fizzle · Sep 25, 2005, 03:02 AM // 03:02

Weird thing I got the same problem :P cept Im the indian(boy asking her out not the other way around :O)being tounge tied sucks ^_=.

ManadartheHealer · Sep 25, 2005, 05:53 AM // 05:53

Just be calm and don't worry about it...there's no reason to be nervous

Mistress Eyahl · Sep 25, 2005, 02:11 PM // 14:11

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Originally Posted by Serps

Treat her like a friend until you're no longer tongue-tied. That way, you won't screw up.

This is the best advice ever. I'm always best mates with blokes before I go in for the kill. That way, it's like you're hanging out with a really old friend, cos.. you are...heh