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Prince Telemakhos · Mar 18, 2008, 01:47 AM // 01:47

For this thread, I just need some help to charm my lady who lately seems like she isn't happy to see me anymore.

Help is accepted by ladies and gentlemen, but the main problem is that my girlfriend lately has acted like I am just her friend, and she doesnt really seem to like me as much as she used to. Her birthday is coming up but I dont want to get her something too big because that could also end a relationship, but i do want to get her something nice that says i really like her. She used to to call me at random times wondering whats up and she wanted to hold my hand in the school halls but she gives me no signs that she is still attracted to me like that anymore.

What do you think i should do? i see her everyday in school. Should i give her a really nice compliment? should i reach in and kiss her and whisper something nice into her ear? I am not the biggest ladies man so i just need some advice on what a girl would want to make her like her man more.

Thank you VERY MUCH if you post some advice for me in this thread.

big papi · Mar 18, 2008, 01:55 AM // 01:55

first off this prob isnt the best place to come looking for relationship advice but its still better then doing so on the wow forums.

just end it and move on imo. plenty of ladies out there

Brianna · Mar 18, 2008, 02:08 AM // 02:08

Personally I'd be feeling like this is a time for a ''Talk''.

Y'know, sit on the bed.. and bring it up with her, to really find out what's on her mind. Because by the sounds of it actions and such may not be able to remedy it, needs communication too.

Either way good luck, if it's what you consider a ''Serious'' relationship and you really love her then maybe just go with what feels natural for you, what you think you should do.

Cause honestly we don't know her, so telling you what she might like is really a hit or miss deal.

Scary Raebbit · Mar 18, 2008, 02:09 AM // 02:09

Banging another dude.
End it.

AceeBlueEagle · Mar 18, 2008, 02:21 AM // 02:21

You're young. Move on and have fun. Youth doesn't last forever and there will always be mental people in your life to deal with.

captainccc · Mar 18, 2008, 02:22 AM // 02:22

Hahahahhahahahahahahahah. ( @ rabbit)

Imo dude, make an effort to do cute things like grab her hand instead of waiting for her to grab yours. Look into her eyes and tell her she's really awesome, works on my gf everytime she's down. ( Not like a "dude ur awesome bro- awesome. More like a "I'm so glad your my gf" -awesome.

If the cute stuff doesn't work, move on, but if you really like her, keep trying.

shrouded^god · Mar 18, 2008, 02:23 AM // 02:23

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Originally Posted by Brianna

Personally I'd be feeling like this is a time for a ''Talk''.

Y'know, sit on the bed.. and bring it up with her, to really find out what's on her mind. Because by the sounds of it actions and such may not be able to remedy it, needs communication too.

Either way good luck, if it's what you consider a ''Serious'' relationship and you really love her then maybe just go with what feels natural for you, what you think you should do.

Cause honestly we don't know her, so telling you what she might like is really a hit or miss deal.

Listen to Brianna...the best and most truthful answer you'll get....coming from the correct point of view...and guy you speak will...well...give you shitty answers...

RedStar · Mar 18, 2008, 02:25 AM // 02:25

O_o I haven't seen a thread like this in such a long time xD

*will edit after reading the entire thread lol*
Ok now I have read it.
Here's how I think it should work :
-You're the one that has to hold her hand.
-Don't wait for her to say things like "I love you", say it first.

Now I think that you did something "wrong", so maybe you should try to find what (by asking your friends to ask her friends lol) or you could just ask her (but I you didn't do anything wrong then you are screwed lol).
Also, it's sad to say, but , like Raebbit said, she may have cheated with another person (so she either fells bad about it, or she's continuing to cheat on you...).

But I think Brianna's answer was the best.

Malice Black · Mar 18, 2008, 02:25 AM // 02:25

Buy her a vibe. She'll love your for forever. You'll never get any though :x

Kerwyn Nasilan · Mar 18, 2008, 02:29 AM // 02:29

Dump her, play moar GW

Prince Telemakhos · Mar 18, 2008, 02:30 AM // 02:30

thanks Brianna and captainccc, best advice so far

and yes i know its not the best place to ask for this advice, lol. still i need it.

Age · Mar 18, 2008, 02:34 AM // 02:34

I was wondering does anyone have any tips on how to get one? I am very older person don't know if you would consider it midage yet.I don't.Thanks

Redfeather1975 · Mar 18, 2008, 02:49 AM // 02:49

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Originally Posted by Age

I was wondering does anyone have any tips on how to get one? I am very older person don't know if you would consider it midage yet.I don't.Thanks

I think self security, humour and varied interests are the main personality traits that seem most appealing. People who are bothered by criticism, have no sense of humour, and are usually only interested in a few things are usually no fun to spend lots of time with.
Physical attraction is probably still the most important part, but those personality traits make the attraction a lot more intense and long lasting.
Many women will not be very attracted to a man shorter than she is. Unless you know she doesn't feel that way, don't expect a woman taller than you to be attracted to you. XD

shrouded^god · Mar 18, 2008, 03:06 AM // 03:06

Im gonna give you guys a walk through...

Step 1.) Open your phone book

Step 2.) Go to the E section in the yellow pages, find Escort Services. Find the one with the funniest name "Kyra's Kinky Kittens" or something along those lines...make the call...

Step 3.) Profit.

Step 4.) Repeat when needed.

azzer20 · Mar 18, 2008, 03:13 AM // 03:13

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Originally Posted by Scary Raebbit

Banging another dude.
End it.

my wrids exactly, if she is distant to you, won't kiss you, won't have sex or whatever, then there is a 90 % chance she sees another guy, it's sad but true, sorry mate

Unlucky Slayer · Mar 18, 2008, 03:25 AM // 03:25

A game forum is not the best place for this. If you really really want a good answer I would suggest going to this forum: http://genderviews.com/